4 Tips For a Great Relationship


We all know that relationships are different and what works for one relationship may not work for another, but there are certain things that should be taken into consideration and should be applied for a relationship to thrive.


Make jokes and laugh at each other, you don’t have to be serious every time, sometimes play around. Watch a funny movie together or go watch a stand-up comedian perform. Laughter does wonders for the immune system, it increases blood flow and lowers blood sugar levels…it is truly the best medicine. Asides that, laughter brings this feeling of warmth and fondness, especially when shared with a loved one.


It’s always refreshing when we do something new as individuals, now having that experience with someone you are in a relationship with helps create a bond, it will give that feeling of togetherness. Maybe sing together in a karaoke club together or go mountain climbing together or maybe take cooking classes together. Something new and fun will help refresh the relationship.

Once you enter a relationship, you automatically become your partners biggest fan/supporter, you should do well to assume this role. In being supportive, your partners happiness becomes a priority to you. Offer words of encouragement when needed, always have a listening ear, even when you don’t have a solution, become a safe haven for your partner, where they can come and find peace and not have fear of being vulnerable or judged. Remember, you are their number one fan, don’t forget to cheer them on especially when they feel down.


Spending time with you partner is a very important thing to do if you want your relationship to grow. Shared experiences are water to you relationship. No matter how inconvenient it may be, always find time to spend together. Scheduling date nights may help. If you are in the same city, you can start learning something new together, learn a new craft, play sports on the weekends or workout together. Time spent together is precious and should be cherished.
In the case of long distance relationships, you can still spend time together, thank God for social media. Stay in contact and let your partner know all about your day, even the little details, it will make them feel as though they were there with you, leave nothing out.
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